Willow Grace

Tuesday, January 05, 2010

Remembering a Favorite Teacher

I've mentioned once or twice that I was part of the auxiliary unit of my High School Marching Band. I was in Tall Flags and I'm still best friends with one of the girls from our unit.
Photo from Victorville Christmas Parade 1984.

On December 27, our band director, Mr. Robert Nygaard, died. I've thought about him so many times in the past 20+ years. He was that beloved teacher who pushed you beyond your limits and the rewards were worth it. Because of his direction, we worked at being the best and took pride in our accomplishments. When we failed to perform, he did not sugar coat the discipline. But we were the greatest (subjective of course, but backed by lots of trophies!hee)band in our division (AA) and won not just 1st Place trophies over and over again, but Sweepstakes, consistently, year after year.



I have lots and lots of favorite memories, but this one stands out because I remember how proud I was after I overhead it. We were at a field competition, just marching from our buses to the field and I overheard a woman telling her husband "Their band is huge! I thought Apple Valley was a small desert town." We made a big impression to those who never heard of us. We were the biggest competition for the other bands who tried to follow our lead.



There's been an amazing rally of people on Facebook getting back in touch and remembering the great times we had and the amazing values Mr. Nygaard instilled in us. Our closest friends in high school of course were part of the band. But inevitably almost all of us lost contact with each other. But Mr. Nygaard is still bringing us together, like the family that we were.

This one is from the Apple Valley Pow Wow Days Parade.

There have been so many great photos and videos that people are sharing on Facebook. Watching some of the videos made me bawl like a baby. Especially the one with the performance of "Only Time Will Tell". I still get goosebumps whenever I hear that song. Unfortunately, that video is only on FB, but here are a few from Youtube that I found:

Here's one from a parade in Chino. Let's see if you can spot me. LOL! It's probably impossible because the video is grainy, remember that was 1986. But I can pick out my BFF cuz she's tall and was always front and center. This year, I was usually on the left, 3rd row, but really, it's impossible to tell which one is me.


I wish I could find a video of a field competition from my, eh hem...era. But here's one from 1990, still under Mr. Nygaard's direction.


And another one from the Hollywood Christmas Parade in 1990. We were invited to this parade every year. Good times, good times. You'll see Mr. Nygaard marching in his suit lookin' all serious next to the band. What a man.
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Thursday, December 31, 2009

Goodbye Aughts!

Happy New Year's Eve everyone!

I got this idea to reminisce about the past 10 years from my cousin. How do you summarize 10 years? 3650 days? Plus a couple of days to account for leap years. I don't think it's possible in a short post, but I'll give it a go! Of course, there were lots and lots of challenges and losses that happened along the way, but I try to keep it positive here, so I might gloss over those, but they certainly won't take center stage.

(click on image to enlarge if you wanna read text)

2000
-1st year at the hideaway
-emotional trip to the Philippines after my mom died

2001
-celebrated our 10 year anniversary
-vacations to Kauai and Vancouver
-Jimmy went blonde for a few days, then purple
-1st nephew graduated high school, 4th nephew born, BFF Jeff got married, BFF Bowen Couple had their 1st baby - the 1st in our closest friends
-a heightened awareness of how important family and friends are after 9/11

2002
-fractured/cracked rib while snowboarding
-Jimmy did a motorcycle adventure in Baja, Mexico
-Jimmy = too many hand surgeries
-BFF Monica had baby, SIL Lauree got married in Catalina, 1st niece graduated high school

2003
-evicted from condo in Mountain View, moved to San Jose
-Jimmy = knee surgery
-Chancey couple had twins, BFF Danielle got married, 5th nephew born, Shy SIL got graduate degree

2004
-Yuen Wedding, Cousin wedding, 2nd niece and 2nd nephew graduated high school, Bowen baby 2 born
-vacation in New York & Boston, Alaska cruise




2005
-BFF Danielle's 1st baby born, 6th nephew born
-vacation in Seattle, Washington DC, Kauai
-Bye-bye Fangboy Kitty

2006
-Yuen's 1st baby, Cousin's 1st baby, Brewer's 1st baby, 1st niece graduated SDSU
-vacation in Dallas, Seattle, Kauai
-start of annual Camp Retzlaff @ hideaway
-walk/jog 1st 5k at Disneyland
-Cross country road trip w/ SIL Molly

2007
-1st nephew graduated UCSD, childhood BFF Bridget's wedding, BIL John's wedding in Alaska
-vacation in Alaska for wedding, Seattle x2

2008
-Yuen's twins born, Cousin's 2nd baby, Brewer's 2nd baby, BFF Danielle's 2nd baby, 2nd niece graduated Claremont College
-vacation in Chicago, NYC, Sedona
-Jimmy and I celebrated our 40th birthdays
-cabin chimney remodel
-fractured right foot

2009
-Bye-bye Billy Kitty
-vacation in Chicago, Seattle, Phoenix
-Rhino adventures
-wow, no births, weddings or graduations in 2009

Reminiscing like this is a good way to remember that it is a wonderful life. Ya take the bad with the good, but focus on the good and life will just go so much smoother.

Jimmy and I wish everyone a very happy and safe New Year's Eve!!
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Wednesday, December 30, 2009

Counting down the last few hours of 2009

I can't be absolutely certain, but I think this photo was taken during a New Years Eve party. I was 2 1/2 years old. No wonder I look so sleepy!
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Tuesday, September 29, 2009

In memory of a Volvo Wagon

We had to put the old girl down last Thursday. Actually, not sure if it had the personality of a girl or boy. Probably a boy since it was Jimmy's car. But the event was a relatively sad day. Not really sad sad (thus the relatively), because it was just metal and plastic and rubber and...ok, i'll stop there...but it happened during a week that was already blech, that saying goodbye to the hunk-o-junk was just another little notch in the way the week had been going.

And by hunk-o-junk, i mean it in the most affectionate way. lots of memories in that car. After 14 years and 223,334 miles, it took us to a lot of places. Humor me if you will as I stroll...or should i say cruise...down memory lane. Grab a soda and prepare yourself for a long one. Or just skip it if you want. I promise, I won't hold it against you.

1995
To say that Jimmy researched the heck out of which car to buy would be a gross understatement. He spent at least 6-8 months determining which car would be best for his needs. When he was deciding on the Volvo wagon, I flat out refused. I hated wagons. Wagons were ugly. But I tried to be reasonable, talked to my friends and cousin about it. I knew it wouldn't be my car, but I would have to ride in it, and I didn't want to be seen in a stupid family car wagon. We were barely 27 years old, not 35 with 2 kids. My friends reasoned with me, told me it was Jimmy's car and wagons weren't that bad. Besides, it's a Volvo so it'll last a long time, long enough for us to have that family with 2 kids and a dog. Joke was on us on that last part! haha.

So in October of '95, I relented and we bit the bullet and bought the wagon.
There's Jimmy inspecting and falling more in love with every inch of the car. That red Grand Prix next to it? The reason Jimmy needed a new car, the lemon with faulty breaks, that left him/us stranded 4 times in as many years, once in Portland while on vacation.

That evening, we had to show it to our dear friends, the Bowens. Ed worked with Jimmy so heard for the past 6-8 months which car Jimmy was researching and which one he finally decided on. And I'm pretty sure Angie helped me through the trauma of owning a...gasp...wagon. That night, we picked up another good friend Jimmy worked with, Jeff, and drove through San Francisco to Marin. Against my better judgment, but Jimmy thought it fine, we drove through McDonald's and ate burgers, fries and soda IN the brand spanking new not even 7 hours old car. Now, we love Jeff, but he had a tendency to...spill, and not even notice. I could tell you about the time he lived with us in Southern California and spilled sprite on our carpet and since it was clear, he didn't think it needed to be cleaned up because it would dry like water. It never occurred to him that the sugar in the soda would be sticky and be a magnet for dirt. This is our Jeff, one of our best and closest friends, who we love and let eat in our brand new car. Love you Jeff!

1996
This was the Volvo's 2nd trip to Tahoe in its first 5 months. The first time Jimmy took it to Tahoe, I stayed home. It was a boys trip. On their way home, the roads were super icy and I'm sure you figured the rest of this story, the car ended up in the ditch next to the mountain. It was less than 3 months old and acquired its first noticeable dents. This trip in March of '96, I tagged along with the boys. No accidents.

We put a lot of miles on that car in 1996. In May, we drove to Frisco, Colorado to spend a long weekend with Jeff at his family's condo in the Rockies.It was an unforgettable trip. We took the Volvo all the way up to the Continental Divide at an elevation of nearly 12,000 feet.

A few weeks after that, we took drove cross country to Jimmy's brother's home in New Jersey. We drove from California, though Nevada, Utah, Wyoming, Nebraska, Iowa, Illinois, Indiana, Ohio, Pennsylvania and finally arrived 5 days later in New Jersey.
Most nights, we camped on the road at KOAs to save money. We were in West Liberty, Iowa here.

On our way back to California, we decided to drive though Canada, mostly on the Trans-Canada Highway. From New Jersey, we drove through New York, into Ontario spending a few days in Toronto. Onward to Winnepeg, Manatoba. Then to Saskatoon, Saskatchewan; Edmonton, Alberta; the Canadian Rockies from Jasper to Banff; ending in Calgary, Alberta before driving through British Columbia back into the US via Washington, through Oregon and back home to the Bay Area, after 6 weeks on the road.

Obviously we spent a lot of time in the car that year. This trip certainly was the most memorable because it was so long and we explored areas we had never gone before. Along the way, we were stopped twice for speeding. Once in New Jersey, an hour before arriving at Jimmy's brothers house. The next time in the Manatoba plains. Both times, our California license plates got us out of tickets. All through Canada, we got many thumbs up. Once, just outside of Edmonton, a car with 2 young men, younger than us at the time, pulled up next to us and told us to roll down our window. We did and they said "California, eh? Cool!!! Don't go into BC. BC sucks!" Very funny and memorable.

In April of 2000, the volvo saw it's first serious accident. We were in San Francisco on a spur of the moment trip in. We were driving down Van Ness when a car made an illegal left turn into us. There was a sign facing him that said "NO LEFT TURN." But he was a tourist from Thailand and couldn't read the sign. It happened so fast that we were already pushed across the street onto the sidewalk when Jimmy said "this is gonna hurt". He thought he said it BEFORE the car even hit us. He thought he said it when he saw the car coming at us. But it didn't come out of his mouth till we were stopped on the side of the road. It took 3 months and over $14k to repair the car. Thank goodness for insurance, especially since the tourist was driving a rental and they didn't cover jack, even though it was his fault. Thank goodness for witnesses, too. It took us a while to do spontaneous trips into the city after that. I was ok, but Jimmy had a concussion and linger effects from the accident for over a year.

But we've made lots of memories in that car.
Many trips to S. California and Las Vegas to visit family.Trips back through the Mojave Desert where we met in high school and fell in love.

Countless trips exploring the Sierra Nevadas near our hideaway...




The subject of a few silly creative photos:
In Carmel.

May 2008 would be its last big Road Trip.We drove 13 hours to Sedona, Arizona. Spent a few days exploring the most beautiful desert I've ever been in. Drove another 13 or 14 hours to Southern California to visit friends and go to our niece's college graduation. Then drove the 6 hours back home to the Bay Area. It was only a week, nothing like our 6 week adventure 12 years prior, but another memorable time on the road in the wagon.

That summer however, it started showing signs of its age. We had to repair the radiator and put in a new transmission. It was also time to replace the tires. But before putting all that money into a car that old, Jimmy did a lot more research into a replacement car. He needs a car that can haul a lot of stuff. The boy plays hockey 2-3 times a week and has to fit his goalie gear in the back. He needs a car that can tow. He wants a car that gets decent mileage. He needs a car that fits his long legs and is comfortable and fun to drive for several hours at a time. He concluded that for his needs and for the value, it would be better to repair rather than replace. I couldn't argue with him, because even after those first 2 years of complaining about how ugly the car was, it won me over and I loved it, too.

Before the year was over, we'd have to put a little more money into the car. We were in Orange County, spending some time w/ Jimmy's brother and family. You know how "they" say never leave your GPS on your dash? Yup, we became a statistic. Thankfully, all they stole was the GPS, more valuables were in the car. But it was a classic "smash and grab" theft, the boys barely stopped their car to grab the GPS. Another car down the street was also broken into and the neighbor next door heard and saw the boys do it. Didn't report it or tell us when it happened during the night, but did when the police came to file a report.

But after replacing the window, the wagon didn't give us a bit of trouble. The window incident happened last september, so we still had another year of fun with it.
With the new transmission, it easily towed the boat up and down the steep mountainside.

And when we got the Rhino, it wasn't phased by having to tow it up the mountain to elevations over 8000 feet.

In fact, it seemed to have renewed spunk and energy.

Until one day last week, when it accidentally met the back end of a Nissan Altima.
The damage may not look too bad. Thankfully, both Jimmy and the other party barely felt the bump. But on a car this old, the needed repair of the radiator and hood alone, totals the car.

So we had to say good-bye and thank you to a car that took us many places, was a lot of fun to drive, and gave us lots of memories.

Despite all my hemming and hawing, I'm so glad Jimmy bought that car. There couldn't have been a more perfect car for him...us...for the past 14 years.
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Thursday, June 04, 2009

Peelings


posting this because it cracks me up and i need to be cracked up right now.

There's a funny relatable story about this video. Aside from the comedy regarding the Filipino accents. But about Vicks. I swear to you, my mom thought it was the cure all for everything. I didn't realize it was cultural till I saw this video. I wonder why Filipinos think that Vicks is the magic cure? Anyhoo...this one time...at band camp...(sorry, i couldn't resist)...jimmy and I were having dinner with my mom at her house. He had a scratch on his leg and my mom INSISTED that we put Vicks on it. At first, Jimmy and I were saying, "no no, it's ok. it'll be fine." But she wouldn't let up on the Vicks. So I finally said "ok" and pretended to put Vicks on his wound. Now, jimmy and I use that as our secret code to "Vicks it" whenever we're in a losing battle and we just need to stop the madness.
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Thursday, September 25, 2008

Zucchini Bread

This is my mom's famous zucchini bread. It's been years since I made it because Jimmy doesn't eat it and it makes 2 loaves, which means I eat 2 loaves of zucchini bread. And as much as I can pretend that it's healthy - zucchini and all, there's a whole cup of oil and 2 cups of sugar in those 2 loaves.
My mom was a pretty good cook. Before she came to the United States, she worked in the Philippines at the US Army Base cooking, cleaning and nanny-ing for American families. I'm a decent cook. I can follow a recipe, modify it and wing it every now and then. But I cook nothing like my mom. In fact, I followed her recipe exactly, well almost exactly, and my zucchini bread looks and tastes nothing like hers. Or how i remember hers to be. Hers was darker and oilier. I'm not sure why mine turned out so light. But I have an idea why mine doesn't quite taste the same. First of all, I'm not a big fan of cinnamon. So instead of 1tsp that the recipe calls for, I only added a little over 1/2 a teaspoon. But I forgot an ingredient that's almost always in baked goods. Vanilla. I've never ever forgotten vanilla in a recipe before so I was kinda worried how it would turn out. How essential is vanilla to baking? Surprisingly and happily, it's still really good. Phew. Have you ever forgotten vanilla in your baking and if so, how'd it turn out?

I asked Jimmy when was the last time he had zucchini bread and he said, when he was a kid. So I had him try another bite. His comment "It tastes like vegetables." Good gravy. I can't even disguise vegetables in a dessert for the man. I'm meeting Angie for lunch tomorrow so I'm giving her the 2nd loaf.

If you like zucchini bread, I recommend trying this recipe. Here are the ingredients.
Yup, I had the vanilla out and everything, but I still forgot it.

And here's my mom's recipe.
Makes me happy that I have this in her writing.

I just realized that her recipe doesn't say how long to bake it. I baked my 2 loaves for 1 hr 25 mins. I started testing it after 60 minutes.
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Thursday, September 11, 2008

Reality not my reality

I've been addicted to Jon and Kate plus 8 . I can't even tell you how much I've watched lately. I'm usually not the reality tv type of person, but this summer, I became the reality tv junkie. I think my fascination with their family is how they do it with 8 kids. So impossible for me to put myself in their shoes. Firstly, no kids. Secondly, I was an only child. If you're not familiar with the show, it's a family of 10: the mom and dad, plus a set of twins and a set of sextuplets. The twins are 7 and the sextuplets are 4.

This is me when I was 7:
What's up with that hoe-down outfit? I donno, but I loved it. I remember watching the tv variety show "Hee Haw" all the time. Maybe that's why I loved this outfit so much.

I can't wait for the regular fall tv schedule to start. Maybe I'll stop watching all this reality tv. What shows are you looking forward to? I heard about "Fringe" and I recorded it, but haven't watched yet. Aside from that, just looking forward to my old standbys: Grey's, Heroes, Lost, Pushing Daisies, Ghost Whisperer, etc. Since I fast forward through commercials, I don't even know what new shows are coming out. I need any recommendations you'd like to share.
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Wednesday, September 10, 2008

Sunflowers


Andie got me thinking of sunflowers the other day and I couldn't help remembering the sunflowers my mom grew for a few years. For some reason she stopped growing them when I was around 7 or 8. But they were so big and gorgeous. In the fall, she would dry out the seeds and bake them with salt.
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Friday, June 13, 2008

Yo, Pop. I miss ya.

I never called my dad Pop. It was always Dad or Daddy or more often Daaaaaaaaad. Anyhoo, with Father's Day on Sunday, I thought I'd do this little tribute to the man who raised me, spoiled me, loved me unconditionally, and taught me patience. He had an abundance of it.

My dad was born in 1904 and lived a mostly healthy 87 years. He came to America when he was 20 years old in the hopes to start a new life, work hard and find the American Dream. He landed in San Francisco first, traveled along the west coast, finding jobs in Seattle, Alaska, Los Angeles and finally in a remote Southern California desert town. Somewhere in between, he became a United States Citizen and served in WWII.

When he began his life in the desert, he worked at a then-famous (built in the 40s) desert resort/inn, catering to many Hollywood types like Clark Gable, Gene Autry, boxer Joe Luis, Phyllis Diller, Gregory Peck, as well as Roy Rogers and Dale Evans who loved the community so much they built their home there.


I have no idea where this photo was taken. For some reason, I have it in my head that it's Seattle. But I'm probably wrong. I'm guessing it was taken in the early 50s.

Again, I don't know where this photo was taken either, but those houses in the background scream Los Angeles to me. Cool car back there, too. Wonder who it belonged to?

At the resort. The pool was kept heated during the winter months. Something very unique back then.

Working at the inn.

Another one at the resort.

Hitting golf balls into the empty desert. Perhaps near his house? At a friends?

Fast forward...oh, 10-15-20? years:
In the mid-to-late 60s, my mom worked as a nanny for the man who owned the desert resort.
Man meets woman (1966), they get married (1967) and a child is born (1968).
He has his first child at the age of 64: me! He's dressed in his work clothes for the inn.

Me again, 1968.

A typical Sunday. Must be 1969.

Sometimes it snows in the desert.

A party where we got all dressed up, Christmas 1970. Possibly at the resort.

Well, when you grow up Catholic, it's expected to get your holy communion when your around 7.

Sometime in the 80s, my dad is honored as one of the very first pioneering Filipinos in the High Desert. Go Dad! PS: Thanks for going there and meeting mom.

At my high school graduation party at the 'resort' which at this time turned into a hokey throwback to the 50s. Too bad. But they still had pretty good food. Pay no attention to the girl with the big glasses and big hair.
edit: Jimmy reminded me that I had contacts and short hair by graduation so this pic was actually taken in 1982 when I was in the 10th grade. By 11th grade I had chopped off that crazy big hair.

Both of my parents walking me down the isle.


Happy Father's Day to all fathers, past and present and all men who have the hearts of father's.
Peace out.
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Friday, March 28, 2008

1973

Apparently the telltale ultra short dress was not unusual in the early 70s. I really was wondering because I would describe my mother as being very modest and showing off my knickers like seems out of character for how I perceived her to be. Congrats to Ragged on guessing the right year! We moved into that house summer of 1972. Based on the new plants and I can tell that it was winter/early spring, that would make it anywhere between Dec 72 - Apr 73. I was 4 1/2 years old. Thanks to all for joining me down memory lane.
I musta been grumpy or something. both photos i'm sporting a little attitude.
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Wednesday, March 26, 2008

flashback

Any guesses what year this was?
Um, I think my mother put me in a dress made for a 2 year old. It's a tad short, don't you think?
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Saturday, January 19, 2008

It was a sunny day in Claremont, California

Just how the heck did 17 years go by in a flash? Must mean that its been a great ride.

The other day we had dinner with the Bowen's at La Fondue to celebrate. Their 14th wedding anniversary this month, too. Have you ever had fondue? Can I just say that it's one of the best inventions ever. Get yourself to a fondue place if you've never tried it. Just be prepared for a long dinner, ours lasted 3 hours. Which isn't nearly enough time to digest all that cheese, meat and chocolate. But the pain is worth it, I promise. :)
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Sunday, December 09, 2007

My first Christmas

Obviously I don't remember this, but here I am with my dad oh so many years ago. We lived in the Mojave Desert in Southern California and although the morning sun is shining on us, it must have been a cold day, as all winter days in the desert were. I would have been about 5 months in this photo.
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Sunday, November 04, 2007

Fotobooth Flashback

I've been scanning some old photos and found these silly photobooth pics from my junior year in high school. Good times, despite those crazy big glasses.
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Monday, April 23, 2007

The Interview

I couldn’t resist playing when Zann offered up her Interview Challenge. We’re collaborators in an art blog but just getting to know each other on our personal blogs so decided to take this opportunity to get to know a little more about each other. It’d be a lot of fun if you’d like to play along, so lemme know if you do and I’ll send you 5 questions for you to answer on your blog, too.

1. How did you choose your screen name, Madretz?
Mad is the first 3 letters in my first name and Retz is the first 4 letters of my last name. A few people call me that personally but most call me Madeline or Mad. But I don’t like “Maddy.” Makes me cringe just thinking about it

2. What is the biggest life obstacle you've had to overcome?
Ou, this is a tough one. I’m actually gonna have to plead the 5th on the biggest life obstacle, it’s super personal and highly emotional and I’m still going thru “overcoming” it. But my 2nd biggest obstacle is nearly just as tough, and that was losing my mother 9 years ago. The funny thing is that I was closer to my dad, but I was at peace with his passing. I think because my mom died suddenly, so much was left unsaid. Also...I had to make the decision of keeping or taking her off life support and no matter what the statistics are or what the doctors said, I think I will always question the "What Ifs". Phew, that was tough. I’ve never spilled those beans on my blog before.

3. How did you meet Jimmy?
We’re high school sweethearts. We had classes together since the 9th grade but didn’t really become friends till our Jr. year when we sat next to each other in history class. I remember the beginning of our senior year and the first 4 periods, I was so disappointed that I didn’t have any classes with him. Happily, he showed up in my 5th period English class, we sat next to each other and continued our friendship. I was working at KFC (fried chicken anyone?) and he started working there, too. By December in our senior year, we were dating. Been together ever since.

4. What draws you to the medium of photography over other mediums?
I’ve been documenting my life since I was in the 5th grade when I got my first diary and I started taking snapshots around the same time. My first camera was a Polaroid, then in the 80s I got one of those new-fangled disc-cameras – remember those? The quality of the photos were awful, but they were small and fun for a young teenager. It all changed in 1993 when I got a film SLR camera. That’s when I started learning more about the creativity and art of photography. Still, most of my photography is to document the events that have happened in my life: people/places/things. But I take time photographing things that are visually appealing to me. I like framing the shot, paying attention to how light affects something, or playing with depth of field to focus on a certain object or make it blurry. When I switched to digital, I learned so much more because I can experiment without worrying about wasting film. Also, I’m a lot more confident in my photography skills than my writing skills, so my posts will almost always have photographs to accompany what I write. Often, I’ll let the photograph speak for itself.

5. What is your favorite children's book?
Ah. This is easy! The Madeline series by Ludwig Bemelmans. As a child (or teenager in my case), when you discover a book that’s titled with your name, spelled exactly the right way, then it’s gonna be your very favorite. Maybe that’s sort of cheating, so aside from that, I've loved Richard Scarry books since I started reading.

Thanks for the questions, Zann!
Hope some of my bloggy friends want to play, too. :)
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Friday, January 19, 2007

Married 16 years, together since we were babies

Not really babies, but sheesh! Lookie how young we were.

We started dating December 1985 so, wow, we've been together for over 21 years. This is our graduation picture June 1986. Four and a half years after this, we were married at 22.

Happy anniversary sweets. It's been a blast!

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